Feeling Burned Out? 5 Steps that Help!

Leslie Speas
Apr 4
2 min read

Burnout isn’t just being tired. It’s a soul-deep exhaustion that creeps into your thoughts, your relationships, and even your sense of purpose. And yet, many of us wear it like a badge of honor, as if being overwhelmed proves our value.

Let’s stop that.

It can be hard to slow down when everything feels urgent. But the truth is: burnout doesn’t go away by pushing harder. It goes away by shifting how we approach work, stress, and ourselves.

What is Burnout, Really?

Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged and excessive stress.

Common signs:

Chronic fatigue (even after a good night’s sleep)
Cynicism or detachment from work
Feeling ineffective or unaccomplished
Lack of motivation
Trouble concentrating

5 Steps to Start Overcoming Burnout for Yourself

1. Acknowledge It Without Judgment

The first step is simple—but not always easy. Recognize that you're burned out and permit yourself to feel what you're feeling. Burnout is not a personal failure. It's a signal.

2. Reclaim Control Where You Can

You may not be able to overhaul your job or life overnight, but identify where you can make a difference.

Can you say “no” to a few things?
Can you block time for breaks?
Can you ask for support or flexibility?

Small shifts can restore a sense of agency, a powerful burnout antidote.

3. Prioritize Recovery

Whether it’s more sleep, better nutrition, short walks, or time off—treat your well-being as a non-negotiable. Even 10–15 minutes of intentional recharge time can make a difference.

4. Reconnect to Purpose

Burnout often disconnects us from our “why.” Reflect on what energizes you. What impact do you want to have? You may not be able to change your role, but you can sometimes reframe your work to align more closely with your values.